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Grand Master Brandon Richards, Ph. D.
Seattle Tae Kwon Do
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Are you being targeted?
Grand Master Brandon Richards, Ph. D.
Seattle Tae Kwon Do
People Seeking Directions
If you become lost while driving, you should seek directions by driving to a well-populated area, but what should you do when someone in a car asks for your help? While most people seeking directions are in genuine need of help, it is always wise to exercise caution. A common method of abduction involves luring a person closer to the car by using a map and asking directions. Once you are close enough to be reached, they grab you and step on the accelerator. To avoid falling out of a moving car, you will unconsciously assist them in being pulled into the vehicle through the open window.
Be aware of what is happening around you when you are offering directions. Someone could come up from behind you while you are distracted. Keep your directions simple. The less time you are in contact with a stranger, the safer you are. In addition, simple directions will be more helpful to a lost driver, and they can always ask another for more directions when they are closer to their destination. If you cannot be heard, speak louder. Avoid going closer to the vehicle. Helping people is fine, but use caution while doing so. Until next time...Be Safe.
Grand Master Brandon Richards, Ph. D.
Seattle Tae Kwon Do
www.seattletaekwondo.com
Knowing Your Family Car
In today's busy world even the most cautious, protective parent can be separated from their child. This situation is scary for the parent, but can be terrifying for the child. There are several things you can teach your child that will help prepare them for this type of situation. Today's tip focuses on parking lots. First, teach your child to not wander the parking lot looking for you. Instead, they should go back to the store entrance where they will be out of traffic and more easily seen by you.
Also, it is surprising how many children cannot accurately describe their family’s car. Sometimes we overlook the fact that a three to five year old spends a greater amount of their time on the inside of the car looking out. The size of parking lots associated with malls and shopping centers makes this knowledge crucial for the safety of small children. If a young child is separated from their family, they could feasibly be within sight of your car and never notice.
Two additional assets for your child’s awareness include always identifying a permanent landmark near the area you have parked and having a specific picture, color sticker, or other item in the window for them to see. You can help your child by having them draw a picture of your car and color it so they are aware of its appearance. In future articles we will discuss what your child can do if lost in a store or other area. Until next time...Be Safe.
Grand Master Brandon Richards, Ph. D.
Seattle Tae Kwon Do
www.seattletaekwondo.com
When Someone Must Pick Your Child Up in an Emergency
We spend so much time teaching children not to talk to strangers that we sometimes overlook the fact that this can cause complications in an emergency situation. If you need to send a trusted friend of the family or relative to pick your child up from school or another setting due to an unexpected emergency, this person may be a stranger to your son or daughter. Many things could happen to cause this situation including an unexpected trip to the emergency room, an accident, and so forth. For this situation it helps to teach your child a "Code Word" which only you and your child knows. It should not be something that is easily guessed, and your child needs to be taught that it is a secret, one they cannot tell anyone else. When your trusted friend arrives, they tell your child that you sent them and they say the code word. In today's complex society, this extra precaution can help with dealing with strangers. Ideally, you will be able to call the child's school or daycare center, as well. However, you should be aware that these institutions will likely not release your child unless you have already made arrangements in advance. With the complexity of family structures and custody issues, even a biological parent could be refused by the school without advanced notification. Regarding the code word, once it has been used it must be changed. Talk to your children about strangers and what you would do in an emergency situation. Until next time...Be Safe!
Grand Master Brandon Richards, Ph. D.
Seattle Tae Kwon Do
www.seattletaekwondo.com